Archive for June, 2006

Wedding flowers and their meaning

June 26, 2006 1:09 am

Things like this give me a headache but I find it incredibly fascinating that it exists.  According to the Weddingbee (a group of would-be brides & grooms in NYC), this is the meaning behind various flowers:

Acacia is the flower of friendship.
Agrimony is a flower associated with gratitude.
Ambrosia is the flower for love returned.
Anemone is the flower of expectation
Apple Blossoms are for hope.
Aster is a flower associated with elegance.
Azaleas are the flowers of temperance.
Baby’s breath is the flower of innocence.
Bay Laurel is the flower of glory.
Calla Lilies are for Beauty.
Cemellias stand for loveliness.
Carnations represent devotion.
Chrysanthemums are the flowers of abundance.
Daffodils represent regard.
Daisies are flowers that stand for gentleness.
Forget-me-nots are flowers of remembrance.
Freesias are flowers of innocence.
Gardenias stand for purity.
Heathers are the flowers for future fortune.
Heliotropes like carnations mean devotion.
Ivy is equated with fidelity
Larkspur is the flower of laughter.
Laurels represent peace.
Lilacs are for humility.
Lilies stand for majesty.
Lilies of the Valley are the flowers of happiness.
Myrtle is the flower of rememberance.
Orange blossoms like Gardenias are associated with purity.
Orchids are equated with rare beauty.
Parsley represents the beginning.
Peonies are for bashfulness.
Queen Anne’s Lace means trust.
A Rose of course is the flower of love.
Rosemary is the flower of remembrance and has the same meaning as a forget-me-not.
Sage represents immortality.
Stephanotis represents marital happiness.
Thyme stands for courage.
Tulips are for passion.
Violets are for modesty.
and finally, the Zinnia represents affection.

We have a date!

June 17, 2006 7:30 pm

July 7th, 2007 (should be easy to remember–7/7/07) at Newcastle.  

We just have to have the contract amended with some of our recent comments…then it’s just a matter of signing it and sending in our deposit.  Matt and I went up to Newcastle again today just to visit it one more time before making a decision—it was the first place we ever saw and we just wanted to make sure that it felt right.  It felt right.  We’re super psyched and just glad to get this part out of the way.  Plus, we’re really happy with our location and date—my mom recently checked to see if this was considered a good day for getting married according to Chinese horoscope..and it is!

Matt has now completed asking all his future groomsmen to be a part of his party (I haven’t even started!).  They will be:
- Brad Zinser (Best Man) 
- Aaron Tang (my brother) 
- Derrick Hachey 
- Tom Frank 
- Pete Winfield 
- Rick Winfield 
Now it’s my turn! 

More wedding site visiting….

June 11, 2006 12:15 pm

Matt and I had a very productive day yesterday, visiting 5.5 places (half of one because we barely saw it) as potential wedding sites. 

Edgewater Hotel - located on the Seattle waterfront with gorgeous Puget Sound views (and a nice sunset).  The only outdoor terrace is a small patio that would only be used for cocktail hour.  Ballroom wasn’t bad looking with lots of windows that face the water.  Hotel has a rustic log cabin feel to it but more upscale.  Would be a good reception site but not a likely ceremony site. 

Fairmont Olympic - very elegant, opulent ballrooms.  We saw the Metropole, Spanish Ballroom and Garden Court..mostly impressed with the latter two.  The Spanish ballroom is definitely the nicest ballroom we’ve seen with soaring tall ceilings and elegant drapery.  The service, you can tell, will be outstanding based on the few people we spoke to.  There is room for a ceremony just outside the ballroom–but again, we would likely prefer to have the ceremony elsewhere and then the reception here if we were to do it.  Question is whether or not we want to have ceremony and reception be at the same place or not.  Another thing to consider: this place was $$$$.  But, very very nice. 

Seattle Tennis Club - private tennis club in the Madison Park neighborhood, right on Lake Washington.  The ceremony site would be on their North Lawn with a gorgeous view of Lake Washington and Mt. Rainier—although, facing east, it wouldn’t capture a sunset.  Considering our potential wedding party size, I wasn’t sure about the reception area—it would involve having people sit in separate rooms, which I found a bit odd.  So my only issue was that the ballroom area felt a bit small for the wedding party size we were looking at–for weddings under 150, it would probably be perfect.  Another thing to consider if that there’d be people potentially playing tennis during the ceremony.  Didn’t feel like it would be too private.

Woodmark Hotel, Kirkland - located at Carillon Point, there is a GORGEOUS ceremony site in an outdoor patio right on the water under a permanent tent fixture (much like Newcastle).  In that aspect, we loved the ceremony tent.  On the downside, the ballroom area seemed a bit small and okay looking.  Would have a nice sunset since it faces west and there’s a sense of privacy.

The Canal - this was the place that we barely saw…just wandered around outside as there was a wedding about to happen and the bride’s mother made it clear to us we weren’t allowed inside.  Seemed nice with a view of the Locks but couldn’t really see much.

Shilshole Bay Beach Club - this is near Ray’s Boathouse and Golden Gardens.  On the plus side, the view is outstanding of the Puget Sound and would definitely have an amazing sunset.  However, the interior wasn’t too classy looking as far as the type of reception site we’ve been looking for.  Thing is, I know with the right decorations and stuff, it would be possible to make it look nice.  Has potential to have an outdoor ceremony although it seemed tight.  Definitely has one of the best views and would be extremely private.

So now we’ve seen 9 places total and we still like Newcastle the best we think…mainly because we’re leaning towards finding a place where we can have both ceremony and reception…and we’re pretty happy with both types of facilities at Newcastle.  A lot of the other places we’ve seen, we could only imagine it being only a great ceremony site (i.e. Woodmark) or a great reception site (i.e. Fairmont).

 

Planning sites

June 4, 2006 5:42 pm

The Knot - great for planning wedding guests, budget and a list of reception sites

My Seattle Wedding - so far has been a great site for local resources, reception sites, etc.

Looking at wedding sites…

3:33 pm

We spent the afternoon yesterday looking at 3 wedding sites:

Newcastle Golf – totally fell in love with this site.  Has a nice tent on the Prestwick Terrace where the sides can be rolled up so there’s a feeling of being outside.  Adjacent is a patio, perfect for before-the-reception-cocktails.  Then there’s the ballroom which is just a standard ballroom but is conveniently located all on the same premise.  This would be a great location for doing the whole shebang.  Plus, the view from there is absolutely amazing, seeing Lake Washington and Seattle in the distance.  There’s also a decent bridal suite that comes with rental of the ballroom which would be super convenient for pre-wedding preparations.

Columbia Winery – neat because it’s a vineyard; however, after seeing Newcastle, it really didn’t wow us.  There’s a decent courtyard to hold an outdoor ceremony and an okay conference room area where the reception could be held.  Really near a lot of traffic so the sound of cars was prevalent.

Willows Lodge – definitely more charming than the Columbia Winery with the gardens . The ballroom looked classier and less conference like than Columbia.  Our main concern would be the size of the outside ceremony patio area—looked a bit small. 

So at this point, Matt and I are completely in love with Newcastle.  I, of course, have some trepidation as I like to look at as many options as possible before selecting a place; however, we KNOW that we would be super happy with the Newcastle location.  Plus, there are no more dates available in August and only one in July–the 7th.  We realized later that that would mean 7/7/07, which we thought was kinda neat.  Just to play it safe, we think we’ll put this date on hold with Newcastle so we don’t lose it.  As of last week, they had another date in July and one in August—so those 2 got snapped up quickly!

Other places we may consider…

Seattle Tennis Club - on the water in Madison Park so there’s a view of Lake Washington and Rainier.  Has potential.
The Canal - at the Ballard Locks which is also nice.  Not sure what the inside is like.  May be small for a ceremony.
Fairmont Hotel - fancy hotel in downtown Seattle.  Would be a nice reception site but would mean an indoor ceremony. Would have to consider ceremony elsewhere to do it here.  Also $$$.
Edgewater Hotel - hotel on the waterfront of Seattle so there would be a really nice view of the Puget Sound.  Once again, not sure about this being a ceremony site. 
Shilshole Bay Beach Club - near Golden Gardens and Ray’s Boathouse, so the view would be amazing of the Puget Sound from here.  There’s an outdoor terrace as well and looks like Hawaii with the palm trees.  I’m told that the interior is ‘okay looking’ but the view is really what seals the deal.  Also, catering company that’s exclusively at this location is hard to work with–they’ll only meet between 10am-4pm during the week to even show the place.  Argh. 
Salish Lodge - another beautiful site with the falls, although the farthest from Seattle of all sites we’ve looked at.  For a wedding party our size, though, the ceremony would have to take place in their Centennial Gardens which doesn’t have a view of the falls.  The reception would likely be in the Falls Terrace and Potlatch Room with a nice view of the Falls.  Lots of dates still available.